..My Mother Still Love My Father Despite His Attitude – Says Afrobeat Musician
Afrobeat musician, Femi Kuti, has opened up on the reason his father, Afrobeat legend Fela Anikulapo Kuti never gave him sound education.
He said Fela never sent him to school because he wanted to use him as an experiment, to prove that he could be successful without acquiring education.
He said this recently in an interview with presenters of Your View, an all-female talk show on TVC.
According to him, though Fela was great, he had his faults, one of which was his refusal to send him to school, an experiment he believes was very risky.
“Yes Fela was great. But Fela did have faults. But one of the faults is that Fela wanted to use me as an experiment. His excuse was that I would be successful without going to school.
“And his mother, my mother, everybody, just freaked out. No! When I became successful he was like, ‘Didn’t I tell you? Me that went through that experiment I know it was very risky.”
According to Femi it was because he didn’t want what befell him to also happen to his son, Made, whom he saw as very gifted right from the outset, that he made sure he studied music abroad. And that has paid off. Made has not only followed his father’s and grandfather’s footsteps, he has released two singles, Free Your Mind and Your Enemy.
In the same vein, Femi also opened up on what his father, Afrobeat legend, Fela Anikulapo Kuti did to his mother when he married 27 wives.
The one-time Grammy nominee who recently released a single, Pa Pa Pa, said Fela must have angered his mother when he did so, adding that “he was for everybody and for nobody.” He disclosed this in an interview with presenters of Your View, an all-female talk show on TVC.
“Fela just said I want to marry 27 wives. ‘Come and be the 28th!’ Can you imagine how angry my mother must have been? He married her in London, brought her to Africa and said I want to be an African man. You don’t know what my father did to my mother.”
However, Femi said in spite of what his father did to his mother, she still loved him and never brought them up, the children, to hate him.
Still, the Afrobeat musician explained that when they, the children, started to ask questions about the way Fela was leading his life, their mother hushed them up and warned them never to speak ill of their father because he was their dad.
“When we were even growing up as children, we were like, ‘Where is this man? Where is this man in our life?’ She said, ‘Come, this is your father. Don’t ever let me hear you speak like this again.’ And slowly she moulded us. And we just started to se Fela, Fela that people were seeing. Fela could do no wrong, after a while, for us. We just loved Fela because our mother brought us up that way.
“We had a very good mother. Nobody knows my mother. So she was always at the background. And her own business was she loved her children and she showered us with love. Fela was very outside. The way he brought me up too, very outside man. Fela was for everybody and for nobody.”